
Three
Priorities for Promoting Vocations
Interview
With an experienced Dominican Sister
By
Kathleen Naab
NASHVILLE, Tennessee, JULY 27, 2008 (Zenit.org).- There are three high
priorities in fostering vocations to the religious and priestly life, said a
Dominican sister with 15 years of experience in vocational work.
Sister Catherine Marie Hopkins is now the executive director of the Dominican
Campus in Nashville where the Dominican Sisters of St. Cecilia own and operate Overbrook School, St. Cecilia Academy and Aquinas College.
Recently named a member of the U.S. bishops' national advisory council, Sister
Hopkins suggests the three highest priorities in fostering vocations:
education, sacramental devotion and youth ministry that exposes young people to
both prayer and evangelization.
ZENIT spoke with Sister Hopkins about supporting young women who are discerning
a vocation to the consecrated life, and about how she discovered her own call.
Q: You worked for 15 years as vocation director for your order. What was the
key to finding your own vocation? Did your own experience help you to aid other
women in discerning theirs?
Sister Hopkins: The key to finding my own vocation was the realization that God
had the plan and I just needed to discover exactly what that plan was. It began
with inner turmoil at the thought that God could ask such a thing of me, but I
very quickly found out that if he were calling, everything that I needed in
order to respond would be provided by him as well.
That brought me tremendous freedom and my turmoil was replaced by a very strong
attraction.
I was 24 years old and very happy, but not at peace since I couldn’t say for
sure what God’s will was for my life. All I knew with certainty was that daily
Mass had made me hunger for more, and so I went in search of where I could best
root a growing desire to give of myself. I finally investigated religious life
so that I could rule it out and marry with a clear conscience. When I actually
visited our community and saw very tangible joy, youthful zeal and a long
history of fidelity, fear was reduced by a newly formed conviction that this is
what God had created me to do.
I would say that my own experience made me sensitive as a vocation director to
the fact that successful discernment takes place apart from any pressure and
within the challenging silence of prayer. When I looked for God’s will, I
sought advice and asked lots of questions, but I wanted to make a decision
that, while informed, drew strength from an interior conviction that I
recognized as coming from God.
The Dominican Sisters in Nashville understood that it wasn’t a matter of
recruitment but of exposure.
As a vocation director, I made it a point always to respect the delicate
interior struggle through which most people must pass. My job was not to make a
good sales pitch, but to convey the beauty of our life and to expose young
women to it through a visit or retreat experience. I had to help those who had
the inclination, but struggled with uncertainty, realize that the simultaneous
fear and attraction they felt was normal; and that a sense of unworthiness is
not a bad thing since really none of us is worthy of divine espousal! Making
the choice entails a movement away from a career mentality to the realization
that religious life is about giving yourself to a love that is without limit.
Q: You have three brothers that are priests. Do you think there is a different
strategy for discerning and fostering the vocation of young women than for
young men? In what ways?
Sister Hopkins: My experience has been that, in general, men take a lot longer
in the discernment process, whether it regards marriage or religious life. Once
a woman has conviction she is usually impatient to begin a process.
I wonder if men tend to intellectualize it in the beginning, whereas most women
religious begin intuitively and very privately. They may struggle longer before
admitting they are considering the idea, but once they discern, it is very much
a matter of the heart and they are propelled past fears and natural ties to
offer that gift of self without reserve.
Men need to balance their discernment with devotion and women need to
consciously anchor the process with an intellectual understanding of the call.
In guiding women in discernment, the idea of espousal is a considerable
attraction since we are all programmed by our feminine nature to love and to
nurture in a unique way. I had aspirations of a big family and came to
understand that God wasn’t asking me to deny that desire but to expand it!
Both men and women need to know that a desire to enter into the married state
is not only good, but is even necessary if one is considering religious life.
The absence of such natural desire may signal a problem of selfishness or
difficulty in giving or receiving love. Such an emotional handicap would make
happiness in the religious life impossible.
Regarding my brothers, each of them was different in his discernment. A
discussion about them is a real study in temperaments. I used to hold them up
as examples to illustrate that there is no "one type" that God calls,
but that each of us with our unique characters can contribute in unique ways.
And yes, my brothers are "unique characters." We weren’t born
religious and occasionally have to remind people that we were in the mainstream
in our youth and that none of us was voted Most likely to become a religious in
high school. There is hope in that fact.
Q: There are certain orders of both men and women religious -- including your
own -- that have enjoyed tremendous growth in the last decades. What do you see
at the key to this growth?
Sister Hopkins: I believe the key to growth in vocations is found in the
witness of joyfully living an ideal that is single-hearted, Eucharistic,
faithful to the Church and her teachings. It is lived in the vibrancy of
community life while rooted in prayer. That was what I experienced with the
Dominican Sisters in Nashville.
I believe that young people today are as idealistic as they always have been
and they are looking for a way to channel their zeal and to find support in a
desire to grow in holiness. I do not think it is fancy programs or complicated
spiritualities that attract, but rather simple fidelity.
There are movements of the Holy Spirit lighting fires in many directions today
that are picking up significant momentum and should fill us with hope. The
Council of Major Superiors of Women Religious is an organization of religious
communities who are committed to living the essentials of religious life and
are supportive of one another. I would recommend that young women exploring a
religious vocation visit the CMSWR Web site to see the many communities which
are growing today, in spite of reports to the contrary.
Q: There is much talk of the vocations crisis and whether or not it is nearing
an end for priestly vocations. How about vocations for women religious? Is the
crisis nearing the end?
Sister Hopkins: Women religious have been the backbone of social service,
education and health care in this country. The drop in the number of women
entering religious life has impacted these fields and it will take many years
to see a significant return.
I am reminded, however that the Holy Spirit is not limited by Gallup Polls or
the predictions of sociological studies.
Consider the simplicity and tenacity of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta at a time
when the numbers of women religious were declining. Her response to God’s call
yielded a new religious order that grew to over 4,000 sisters, an associated
brotherhood of 300 members, and over 100,000 lay volunteers, operating 610
missions in 123 countries.
What our world needs is more Mother Teresas, people with zeal, humility and a
fearless love. Over the past 20 years I have seen the numbers of women
inquiring into the religious life grow both in numbers, quality and openness.
Given the fact that our culture is not supportive of such ideas, nothing short
of grace can explain it.
Q: You were recently named to the U.S. bishops' national advisory council. On
the heels of Benedict XVI's visit to the United States, what do you see as the
priorities for fostering vocations in the States?
Sister Hopkins: I think that in order to foster vocations to the priesthood and
religious life the three highest priorities should be in the areas of education,
sacramental devotion and youth ministry that exposes young people to both
prayer and evangelization.
Young people are hungry to learn the faith and quickly recognize the
unreasonableness of relativism. They have a natural desire to know God and will
be more likely to devote themselves to a life dedicated to him if they have
been educated in the faith. I think that this generation is quick to identify
the need for such an apostolic focus since the lack of it has produced such
confusion and suffering. It is important that the Church continues to
strengthen Catholic education that is focused, faithful and rooted in
excellence.
Devotion to the sacraments is key to discovering as well as nurturing a
vocation. When young people benefit from regular reception of the Eucharist,
confession and begin to develop a prayer life, then God’s call has a chance of
being heard. Eucharistic adoration is drawing many vocations to the priesthood
and religious life, a fact which makes sense if you consider that such time spent
in God’s presence brings light and warmth to our souls.
There is a movement of the Holy Spirit in progress that increases in intensity
whenever youth affectively influence one another. There is nothing more
powerful than the witness of young people striving to know and do God’s will.
Love is not meant to be contained, and so when we discover the Person of
Christ, it is natural to experience an interior compulsion to share that
discovery with others.
Substantial youth ministry which prompts conversion, devotion and exposure to
positive peer influences has been successfully producing vocations to the
priesthood and religious life. Of course, it is important for young people to
be exposed to priests and religious who are joyfully and faithfully living that
commitment.
Pope Benedict put it best to the youth he spoke to in Dunwoodie when he
challenged them saying, Strive for a pattern of life truly marked by charity,
chastity and humility, in imitation of Christ, the eternal High Priest, of whom
you are to become living icons.